My Father
Forward
Aside
from the feeling that I have here discharged a personal obligation to the memory
of my parents I
believe
that it is to a considerable degree a representative account typifying the
struggles vicissitudes sacrifices and problems of millions of immigrants to
America and their individual contributions toward its development and
enrichment. The bias of blood
making detachment and objectivity impossible, I offr as authentic many facts
definitely established. Others in
the nature of hearsay, folklore, humor, and tradition while dubious, did not
lack support in my boyhood days.
Openly sympathetic, I feel that were I to approach them otherwise I would not be
capable of understanding or interpreting them.
My father was a
man far above the average intelligence found in the working class in which he
ranked lifelong. The earlier
generations of his family seemed to have been at least moderately circumstanced
as I understand that one of his grandfathers owned two good sized farms, and the
other engaged in the retail business.
One of his uncles was a Catholic priest.
My grandfather and a brother were carpenters.
I recall father relating an interesting story in this latter connection.
Grandfather
Fleming kept several special boards seasoning for years on the rafters of his
workshop. The day before his death
he instructed his brother to take his measurements for a coffin to be made out
of the boards mentioned. Father,
although very young recalled watching his uncle making the coffin while
grandfather was still alive. This
probably occurred in 1850 or 1851, as Aunt Ellen who was born in 1850 was an
infant at the time and father was only a child of five or six years of age.
Grandfather
Fleming had participated in the rebellion of 1848 and took part in the assault
of the local police barracks which he had earlier helped to construct.
He also fought with Thomas Meagher in Belgium in 1829.
James Fleming was the father of five children, two girls and three boys.
Mary died while still a child, and Ellen died in her twenties.
Uncle Edmond came to America and was killed while working on the railroad
in 1870 in his 22nd year.
All three of the
boys were in the rebellion of 1867 and father and Uncle Ed took part in the raid
on Canada in 1870. Uncle John never
came to America but lived for many years in England.
He seemed very well to do as
did his cousins john and Mary Fleming as father and brother John inherited
considerable money from them.
Grandmother
Fleming widowed with five small children was supported by her brother the
Reverend Edmond Phelan, a Catholic priest who practically reared the children
and gave special education and training to his namesake Edmond Fleming whom but
for his untimely end would have probably followed in his uncle’s footsteps.
Grandmother Fleming died around 1890 and seemed to have been at least
eighty years old. Father was born
in 1846 and died in 1910. Uncle
John was born in 1844 and died in 1912.
Father’s home
town was Carrick on Suir in County Waterford Ireland where they seemed to have
been rooted for centuries, having arrived in Ireland in 1066 with the Norman
invasion and are said to be descendants of Flemish archers whose prowess with
the crossbow contributed to the success of that invasion.
Of note here is the fact that my grandfather served with his personal
friend General Thomas Meagher of Waterford in the Belgian war for independence
in 1829.
Father
immigrated to the United States in 1867
via France and worked at railroad building across the country until he married
my mother in Rondout, New York (Kingston) in 1873 after which he engaged in
bricklaying until locating in Rosendale township in 1876..
For the remainder of his life he worked in the cement mines except for a
few years as a cemetery sexton..
After residing in various Rosendale districts , he finally located on James
Street in 1883 and our family now number among the few very old residents there..
Father and mother had twelve children,
two girls and ten boys and of these eight lived well beyond voting age..
As of this writing (1949) five are still living..
An extraordinary
man and a very unusual type for a common laborer, father possessed breeding,
refinement, and surprising intelligence.
A student, bookworm, orator, and a deadly wit; he had no local equal as a
debater. Even the combined efforts
of intelligent sons to gang up and get him confused only resulted in amusement
for him and frustration for his smart-alecky scions.
Of established honesty, he was empathetic, almost fanatic in his
well-grounded and wholly defensible convictions.
He lacked prejudice, save for the things he held in common contempt; for
such his contempt seemed tinctured more with pity than scorn.
Religiously inclined and well versed in
ecclesiastical lore and concepts, he often openly denounced inconsistencies and
unchristian attitudes of many individuals, even those of his own faith whom he
thought disregarded their commitments.
As a father he
was extremely kind and never punished any of his children and even resented
mother’s efforts to maintain family discipline.
Politically he was a Republican until later becoming interested in Henry
George, he finally embraced such progressive doctrines as did not run counter to
his religious beliefs. Always a
staunch laborite, he was a last ditch fighter in The Knights of Labor local
problems often at great personal sacrifice and financial hardship despite his
intelligent awareness that his loyalties were misled and in some instances
betrayed.
Discussions concerning his
people always saddened father and he seemed to reproach himself for not
remaining with his mother and sister during their lifetimes.
That his family was highly respected was indicated by the attitude of
various County Waterford people who frequently called upon him in this country.
All of these people spoke highly of father’s family, and from them I
learned many favorable family facts concerning which father never bragged.
Apparently our family line was a slow dying “old house” and father
admitted to me that were it otherwise he would have never married.
His wise selection of my mother introduced a strain that matched his own
for character and intelligence.
Father differed
from most of his contemporaries many of whom were gregarious, rough, bearded,
brawling, hard drinking and uneducated.
While though mixing in organizations concerned with political, labor, and
nationalistic matters, he was temperate, clean shaven, well spoken, and widely
read. Always a profound student, he
was familiar with the best literature of the ages.
He loved poetry, read the bible freely, was well versed in Irish,
English, and American history, and had a fair knowledge of general history.
His deep interest in ecclesiastical writings evidenced a strong religious
tendency. Catholic, Irish, and an
active rebel, he liked England and its people, among whom he spent several years
in his younger days. Catholics and
Protestants alike conceded his intellectual honesty and personal integrity.
While his opinions often displeased many, strange to say, he made few
lasting enemies, and in these he took especial pride.
Father never
inflicted any of his private “isms” on any bored or disinterested individuals.
His policy seemed to let the other fellow lead off and follow him up
step by step either to agreement or otherwise.
One of his best friends was an Episcopal minister, a native of the Isle
of Wight and a personal friend of Alfred Tennyson whom he somewhat resembled.
They usually discussed English and Irish history and literature.
Religion was rarely mentioned.
Both of them could quote Bobby Burns in good Scottish dialect.
Other topics ranged from Socrates to
John Brown of Osawatomie.
Father, from
personal choice, liked to keep record of time in the same fashion as did the
illiterate “owld stock” for ages.
He quoted dates only when omitting them would cause confusion.
Examples follow:
· Vinegar Hill Rebellion 1798
· Impeachment of Hastings 1788-1795
· The time of “Bony” 1815
· Emancipation Year 1829 (Roman Catholic Relief Act)
· Night of the Big Wind 1839
· The
Famine Year 1846
· The Rising of ‘48
· The Crimean War 1854- 1855
· The
Indian Mutiny of 1857
Other
dates were indicated in conversation
with those that understood by such allusions as
The Fenian Rising (1867),
Disestablishment of the Church 1869, and
the Phoenix Park Murders (1882).
American dates were implied by reference as well such as
The Tilden Trouble (1878), Grants Term
(1869 – 1877), The Potato Bug Year and
The Blizzard (1888). Local
periods were mentioned as
The High Water Spring (1878) and
The Binnewater Strike (1888).
One reference has an interesting family
connotation was the year Mike Foley Jumped the “Ha Ha” (1852).
Mike Foley was a
neighbor’s child who adored my great grandmother who until 1841 kept house for
her son, my grandfather. He married
that year to the great dissatisfaction of the Foley child, as the new bride
seemed to be displacing him as the center of attraction.
He asked great grandmother to put the new woman out.
She told him that he should speak to the son about it.
This Mike did at once. My
grandfather seriously confided to the boy that he did not want the woman there
himself but could do nothing about it as she was a stranger to him and he was
afraid of her. He then asked
Michael if he would please order the woman to go away.
Glad of the chance, Mike issued the mandate.
Grandmother Fleming meekly consented to leave as soon as she could get
someplace to live. She fed and cajoled
Mikey and asked why he didn’t like her.
There seemed nothing in particular.
He was finally won over and ever afterward was her constant friend.
The “Ha Ha” was
a hidden fox hunting hazard, a horse jump that killed the Marquis of Waterford (Henry
Beresford, 3rd Marquis of Waterford)
in 1859.
My father saw young Mike Foley clear it in a running leap in 1852.
This same athlete often tottered into our Rosendale home to talk about
old times in Ireland with my father.
The sight of this palsied old man always touched my father deeply, and
caused him to recall the famous young jumper of bygone days.
Incidentally, Mike Foley and his cousin Jim who also lived in Rosendale,
both carried a pike in the rebellion of 1848 in the same local unit in which my
grandfather served.
In the 1880’s
The Knights of Labor and the Hibernians were strong.
Father belonged to both.
They died out due to the decrease of Irish immigration, combined with the lack
of interest on the part of American born generations.
Colorful and impressive, the Hibernians were quite typical of the many
and diverse fraternities which were then in vogue.
The Knights of Labor being cosmopolitan was then the largest local
organization. It’s back was broken
however in The Binnewater Strike of 1888, after which local labor units were
weak, covert, and largely underground.
Having a young
family to support, father often helped in the ice harvesting along the Hudson
River. There were no felt boots
then and leather boots were generally worn by the workers.
In addition to the few hard earned, sorely needed dollars, father often
contracted frozen feet and a cough that lasted deep into the summer.
This in addition to seasonal attacks of malaria, hard work, worry, and
family responsibilities, practically wrecked him in his forties. All these
bringing on a light paralytic stroke after which he aged rapidly,
yet struggled along in his laborious
work until his death in 1910. Commenting
on latter-day advancement, father enshrined the inventor of felt boots among the
greatest of human benefactors and welcomed the advance of labor saving
machinery, hopefully expecting them to eventually become government property
used to ease the burdens, shorten the workdays, provide work for the vigorous,
abolish child labor, and facilitate pensions for the ill and aged.
A man of great
feeling, his intelligence intensified his sufferings and recognition of his
hopelessness of his lot caused him keenest mental anguish.
Without any evidence of self-pity he
regarded his problems as part of the lot of class in his time and generation
which bad as it was witnessed advancement and human progress toward the Utopia
of his dreams. A lifelong slave,
his only personal hopes were in the hereafter and he often said “Whatever is
ahead, let it come. I don’t want to
go back”. His sympathy for
others, love of children and animals, and his pity for misfortune was boundless
and extended to every living creature.
While engaged as
a cemetery sexton, he was painfully impressed with the neglect of children to
care for the graves of their honest hard-working parents.
Often out of sheer indignation he without recompense, cleared the weed
grown plots of parents who had left substantial sums to their children.
Beautiful tributes to his personality were evidenced in his close
attention to the Potters Field and unconsecrated sections of the cemetery, his
care of young wind-sown seedling trees, and his avoidance where mother birds
were either hatching or rearing their young.
At home he often
kept as much livestock as would not interfere with his gardening,
He kept a milk goat, ducks, pigs, two dogs (usually terriers, collies,
and bulldogs), a flock of excellent tumbling pigeons, and many game fowl.
The only trace of cruelty in his nature was the fact of him using these
game cocks for fighting purposes.
He rather lamely and shamefaced tried to justify this practice by saying it was
their nature to fight. This was a
point upon which he disliked being twitted.
He was a sportsman, having caught the fever when very young
and although loving the beautiful
creatures intensely, could not resist demonstrating their fight to the death
qualities. As before stated, the
men of his class were, in the rank and file uneducated, rough, and often devoid
of refinements. The influences of
associations and environments certainly played a part in father’s life which
while altogether changing his true nature, at least accounted for some of his
inconsistencies.
Fiery himself,
he admired fire in a dog, gamecock, horse, or man.
A boyhood follower of horseracing and fox hunting, the yearn for such
removed pastimes never left him.
His living political hero was O’Donovan Rossa “The Irish Dynamite”.
He revered such Irish patriots as The Emmets (Robert
and Thomas Addis), Wolfe Tone, The Shears Brothers, Lord Edward Fitzgerald
and many others. Father always
pointing out that whenever Catholicism was crushed and submerged, Protestant
Irish demonstrated a type of patriotism which Catholic Irishman held in the
highest esteem. He often quoted the
protestant poet Thomas Davis in support of the assertion that such “outsiders”
as the Geraldines (FitzGerald),
Normans, Flemings, and even the English, often became more Irish than the Irish
themselves.
Speaking of
poets, father admired Tennyson, Longfellow, all the Irish poets, and Bobbie
Burns, the latter being his favorite.
He sometimes whimsically tried verse himself.
Some of these effusions I may include later.
It was only during the last years of his life that I was of sufficient
mental maturity to regard much of his extremist philosophies as other than the
rantings of a crank. As I progress
with age myself, I see ah how regretfully that I did not understand him.
Father was a man far ahead of his time in many social ideas, some
permanent fixtures while others in the offing, yet he never could have been a
success. The man was too honest,
too sincere, too radical, and fanatical to ever compromise with intrigue,
rascality and hypocritical diplomacies associated with many types of success.
Thank God for the normalcy, intelligence, and common sense of my mother’s
strain which toned and tempered our family heritage. Father had the impetuosity
which scorns caution, blinds one to the consequences and makes martyrs.
Strategically inclined enemies could cause him to play into their hands
and so destroy himself.
As I developed
in knowledge and experience, I saw the truths in father’s ravings but also
realized that we lived in a small narrow neighborhood, where few understood
or sympathized with such ideas.
Critical generalities often hit too close.
Neighborhood loyalties were offended, cliques were enraged, employers
embittered, the intolerant hateful, and friends alienated.
Such a situation was untenable and suicidal and my mother was very much
upset. Pointing to these factors I
persuaded my father to pipe down for the sake of our family and write a book.
He consented after a long citation of precepts supporting his point of
view and attitude. These ranged
from The Sermons on the Mount,
Thomas à Kempis,
Victor Hugo, Voltaire, Harriet
Beecher, and Dicken’s Wilkes Micawber.
From unidentified sources came phrases such as “Letting the truth be told
though the heavens should fall, and the virtue of having the courage of having
ones convictions...”.
Father did
however start a book, the range of which was confined to the village limits.
This he died without completing, and
the manuscript I have yet to locate.
So far the only writings I have from his notes are a few poems, memoranda
from the bible, the writings of
Thomas à Kempis, and quotations from many poets, political writers and speakers.
These and a mass of clippings from many sources, tracts, and pamphlets,
he called his arsenal of facts.
Father was a
mine of information on Irish history and literature, English and American
politics, and was full of reminiscences throwing light upon the building of
American railroads as far as Omaha. He
participated in two of the so called local wars between rival companies over
mining claims and railroad rights of way.
Father loathed the ward healer type of politician in the abstract, yet I
recall his being won over to a warm and lasting friendship by a country
politician in the locality; a man whom father had denounced, cursed, reviled,
and ridiculed, although never previously met.
This shrewd man realized that he had a half dozen votes in the family and
that father was an embarrassing and dangerous
piece of political artillery which could be silenced by tact and diplomacy.
Adopting these methods he won pop over, first to the extent of a
reluctant admission that although the man was in error, he was nevertheless a
lovable personality.
I have
heretofore made no reference to our family garden.
Father raised cabbage, potatoes, onions, corn, beans, and other
substantials for the family table.
Our plot being too small for the demands made upon it; he tilled some of the
then vacant lots the clearing of which provided us with most of our firewood.
Between this and mother’s economy, otherwise we though poor, were never
hungry. In addition to the animals
previously mentioned, we had flowers, rabbits, ducks, canaries, and cats.
The family cats for many years enjoyed immunity from extermination from
old Duke my boyhood dog who for fifteen years terrorized all the dogs and cats
in the neighborhood. Always hunting
and fighting, he got me into many a jam, and saved me from discipline at the
hands of my mother who dared not touch me when Duke was present.
Complaining to father about the dog , she was advised not to get Duke
down on her as he understood every word she said and would surely revenge
himself. Duke lived for fifteen
years and although old blind and deaf, tried hard to fight till the last.
Mother, although
obviously proud of father’s family, occasionally alluded to his as
The Invader.
Once, and once only father flashed back “Ah but don’t forget my dear that
the invaders landed”. Up to that
time I had been quite conceited about my illustrious lineage, but before mother
was half finished I hung my head in downright shame to think that I inherited
the blood of a marauding bunch of ruffian cut-throats who by reason of superior
numbers and greater military resources had forced themselves upon a decent
people out of the sheer lust for pillage and murder.
Later I conceived the idea of giving the younger children pennies just to
ask daddy at mealtime what year his people landed in Ireland.
Mother always bristled at this and father wisely made some meek and
evasive answer, or none at all.
On the distaff
side of father’s family I have mentioned De la Pour (Powers for short) De Burgo
(or Burke) Fitzgerald and Phelan.
John, James, Thomas, Edmond, Mary, and Ellen seem to have been
traditional family Christian names.
Contemporary relatives of my father were his cousins John and Ellen Fleming.
Unmarried, they through inheritance and business activities, amassed a
considerable fortune, the bulk of which went to charitable and religious
institutions and father and his brother received considerable sums as well.
Father’s brother John outlived him, and left his money to my brother
John, except for a thousand dollars given to my sister Mary.
Beyond question
my father was an extraordinary and splendid character in whom there were many
evidences of excellent breeding, family culture, and fine personal traits that
manifested themselves despite an untoward environment, discouraging
circumstances, and heart rendering vicissitudes.
Were I ever to attain a degree of success such as would prompt anyone to
accuse me of being a great man I would reply “Nonsense!
I am merely the offspring of two great
individuals of whom the world never heard”.
I of course enjoy the better advantages of a later generation and more
favorable circumstances. Yet in
abilities, virtue, and genuine intrinsic worth, compared to them I am but the
poor shadow of a great substance.
I have mentioned
father’s love for game fowl. While
as age advanced and his studies broadened his interest waned in many sports.
Yet he always retained a lively interest in game fowl.
In 1907, having a fine crop of young cockerels, he challenged old Billy
McMann, local veteran of the sport, to fight a farewell main between themselves,
each to condition, heel, and handle their own birds and never again to fight a
main. Billy accepted the challenge.
The fight took place in our henhouse, witnessed by many young devotees of
the sport. A splendid Lemon Pyle of
feathers broke the score and won the main for him.
The two old timers shook hands and wept.
All the young fellows seemed deeply impressed.
Billy McMann died the following year, and father about three years after
the main. His death affected father
deeply. Another incident that
occurred later upset him terribly.
A boyhood chum of his had traveled from Pittsburg to Kingston expecting to
locate father there. Failing to do
so, he wrote to their home town and getting our Rosendale address wrote father.
Father replied and endeavored to arrange a meeting.
He received word that Pat Mullins had died the previous week.
Father was in actual grief.
The Foley men mentioned elsewhere were the old country townies of father.
They and Mary Donovan of Kingston seemed the only home towners of his in
Ulster County. With these he kept
in close touch.
But for father’s
marriage, the family would now be extinct.
As it is there is to date only one grandson two granddaughters, and three
great granddaughters so though the blood may persist the name may change.
Family pride of course, prompts the desire for its perpetuation.
Yet all families lose their original identities eventually.
I regret my incapacity to do something
distinguished and enduring that would symbolize the rear guard action of a very
old family in orderly retreat from an arena which the fought for a millennium
with honor courage and distinction.
What seemed to
me father’s greatest fault was his love of an argument for argument’s sake.
In such cases he would use every device in his debater repertoire to win
his point and sidestep what was often the obvious and glaring truth.
When cornered due to something
conflicting with an previous commitment, he would squirm out of it by delivering
attacks from other directions. In
fact he could and often did justify opposite positions.
Chuck ablock with apt quotations, resorts to ridicule, hit and run
methods, and the trick of quickly attacking from another angle before the
opposition could answer the previous argument.
I could never admire that method.
In saying this I claim no superiority over my parent.
It was the way of his environment.
Formal debates then, at least locally, were knock down and drag out sort
of affairs, and decisions arrived at on a biased basis more often than approach
to facts and truth.
Father’s
European work activities included learning the baker’s trade and working in the
cotton mills of Ireland and England.
He seemed very familiar with the Manchester area in England, having
worked there for some time and returning to Ireland to participate in the Fenian
Uprising of 1867. His hometown,
Carrick On Suir was the site of Curragh More, the estate of the Marquis
of Waterford who conceded a common ancestry with father’s family from the Powers
family one of whom I believe to be my great grandmother.
The name Powers seems originally De La Poer, which is part of the
Bersford family name. Father was
quite intimate with young Lord Charles, who later became a distinguished Admiral
in the British Navy.
The mills at
Carrick were then owned by the Malcomson Brothers.
This English firm, in the expectation of receiving a cotton concession in
the South, backed the Confederacy during the Civil War and were said to help
finance the rebel privateer Alabama.
The mills at Carrick were booming during the American Civil War.
The firm went bankrupt after the Alabama was sunk by the USS Kearsarge.
This battle occurred near enough to Waterford to Induce yacht owners
there to run over to France to witness the fight.
Sentement seemed divided.
Father, unlike
most of the men of his generation, was smooth shaven most of his life though in
later years because of eye trouble, he grew a moustache.
He loved to talk to old timers and they
loved to talk to “Jimmy”, who either remembered or understood what they were
talking about. This applied in
equal force to men of all nationalities represented locally.
Listening in on many of their conversations as a child, I was variously
interested, thrilled, or terrorized according to the nature of the account.
Now nearing seventy, I fell privileged to have attended the sessions
where men born between 1800 and 1850 gathered, conversed, and related firsthand
accounts of historical events, ghost stories and many other items associated
with long, long, ago.
Psychologically
puzzling is the fact that ordinarily alert wary, and quick perceiving, father
seemed in other ways very honest minded and quite gullible.
He would trust almost anybody until they once deceived him saying “I
would rather die by treachery than pay it the respect of fear”.
Despite this, once deceived he always figuratively kept the deceiver in
front of him, often the their extreme embarrassment.
Yet as mother often said “Give him a
soft word and everything is forgiven”.
A split personality perhaps, but in how many ways?
One version of
our family’s historical background was sent to me by my Uncle John when I was a
boy. According to this account, our
ancestors fought under Strongbow during the Norman invasion of England and
Ireland in 1066. He mentioned the
family motto as being “Let The Deed Show” and the war cry as “Crom Abu” which
some claim as “Now And Forever”. My
father had only a smattering of
Gaelic and was not sure about this.
He thought that while these were part of our family heritage, he associated them
with the Geraldines or the Fitzgerald clan, whose blood entered our family via
the distaff side.
Fleming means A Native of Flanders,
those of that race that came to the British Isles during the invasion of 1066
were so called. Maureen Fleming of
Princeton, NJ author of
Elizabeth, Empress Of Austria, and
many other popular writings, mentions one Archambaud as having so distinguished
himself in the service of William The Conqueror, that he was rewarded the grant
of extensive feudal estates. His
decedents are said to have adopted the name Fleming in honor of their
illustrious ancestor having been a
native of Flanders. Maureen Fleming’s
version of the Family Coat of Arms is a large oval shield with a smaller shield
in the center, capped by a large crown.
The greyhounds stand on their hind legs at the sides.
The ribboned motto bearing the legend
Bhear na Righ gan
(Long live the King) streams below the inner shield, and what seems to be a
section of armor appears above the crown.
Decorative designs round out a pleasing symbol cleverly engraved by
Joseph Wein.
Our family, in common with most of Irish, Scottish, and English decent spell the
family name Fleming, thereby identifying themselves as descendants of the old
invaders. Those of continental
derivation spell it Vleming. The
high hat version is spelled Flemming, which neither alters the pronunciation or
adorns an old distinguished name which spelled Fleming is associated with men of
prominence today as far back through American history.
Examples of this are: General Philip Fleming, Victor Fleming of movie
fame, Samuel Fleming founder of Flemington NJ, Sir Alex Fleming the discoverer
of penicillin, Thomas Fleming who crossed the Delaware at Trenton with George
Washington, and Marjorie Fleming.
The Man for whom Fleming County Kentucky is named (Colonel John Fleming),
and the forbearer of many Flemings throughout the South, one of whom according
to a descendent, escaped from an English penal colony in Georgia where he was
under a life sentence for his activities in an Irish rebellion.
My informant of this item was a descendant of the convict mentioned.
Although a southerner and a Protestant minister, he was far from being
ashamed of his convict ancestor who he took for granted to have been a Catholic,
adding that without doubt if his forbearers had access to the old faith, he
would have become a priest instead of a minister.
For emphasis or illustration in argument or discussion, father often cited
famous quotations from poets or writers of renown.
However when fitting he effectively, sometimes humorously, injected apt
truths commonly used by the old time Irish rank and file.
Added to these were many “nail on the head” Yankee farmer philosophies
which he admired greatly. Other
sources of his quotations included The Bible, Thomas à Kempis, Edwin Markham,
Bobbie Burns, Shakespeare, John Bunyan, Dante, Hugo, Scott, Goldsmith, Swift,
Moore, Tennyson, Longfellow, and numerous unidentified writers and thinkers.
Appropriate selections for this biography follow:
Every evil kills itself.
To turn a stream, go to its fountainhead.
Father had many recollections of the old days, ways, and people.
The first extremely dim memory was of his being attracted by the red
uniforms of a long line of men.
This was in 1848, and as supplied by his mother, the facts were: Grandfather had
gone out with the other rebels and the Red Coats came trooping up the road.
She took the children and hid in the hedge.
Father, then very young, babbled enough to be overheard and
reconnoitering soldiers located them.
Grandmother, alarmed tried to run away with the children, but to no
avail. The officer in charge told
her not to be alarmed as the British Army did not fight women and children.
He then tried to question her concerning the location of the rebels.
“Three of them stand before you sir, and the head of the family is your
match in men, and all of us are ready to die sir” she replied.
“A splendid spirit and your privilege.
Good afternoon lady” he replied then departed.
Less sportsmanlike however, is an exchange of retorts to a great English Prime
Minister, who according to one of Father’s stories, visited the local school
then instructed by a Scottish teacher.
Sir Robert Peel, in questioning some of the older boys asked: “When was
Ireland joined to England?” An
alert Irish lad replied that it never had been.
“You are a stupid fellow.” Growled Peel.
“It is you that is stupid sir” replied the youth.
“Don’t you know that the Channel runs between them?”
Quite so Jackanapes, quite so.” replied Peel.
“I wonder if you can tell me when Ireland was conquered by England?”
“It never was and it never will be!”
shouted the boy. Other half
grown lads took up the shout and Sir Robert walked out in a huff to the
mortification of the teacher who ordinarily had his hands full with the big
boys. Commenting on the incident
later, father thought Peel not only ignorant of the conceded privilege of the
Irish soldiers to curse the Queen and fight for her.
Peel, claimed father, “looked for trouble and found it, or at least
underestimated the Irish intelligence, a mistake that but very few British army
officers make.
Relevant here is the remark that I was well acquainted with two former life
guards of Queen Victoria, both of these often hummed or chanted certain
vulgarisms anent “The Quane” but would fight with anyone else who would say
anything against her. Both men were
Irish and about 6ft 3in tall. Noble
looking but hard drinking ne’er do wells.
Each admitted getting kicked out of the regiment after Victoria had over
ruled several previous charges against them.
They claimed Victoria knew most of her men by name and was very kindly.
From his working years in England, father got many good impressions of the
English common people, and never at any time spoke ill of them.
One story concerning an incident that occurred in Manchester points to a
commendable sportsmanship existent there.
The Irish in that city then were few in number.
A dog fight had been arranged between the Irish and English dog fanciers.
During the event, one hot headed Irishman let his dog out and boasted
that it could whip any dog in England, and that he personally could whip and man
in England. A very calm voice
immediately advised him not to make any bets on his brag as there were at least
three Englishmen present that could easily whip him, and speaking for himself,
he thought he could too. The Irish
dog did win but neither its owner nor any of the Irish present offered any bets
on the fellow himself.
Despite favorable opinions of the English common people, father always opposed
its government claiming that only the aristocracy actually benefited from it,
and the lot of the poor was almost as bad as it was in Ireland.
He frequently pointed to a national debt that they could never pay, yet
luxury existed side by side with poverty and squalor.
Dry rot, time, and human progress he averred would actually destroy The
Empire. Illustrative of his attitude
towards the British Government is contained in an account of his introduction to
a brickyard where he first worked in America.
“Immense pikes of brick everywhere and more in the process of
manufacture” He often mused, adding “and the British Army thousands of miles
away from me and these other Irish lads.”
Aside from the humor of this story, there is also a pathos.
He was one of many brave Irish lads who was only recently routed in a
quickly suppressed rebellion. This
was due largely to the lack of proper equipment.
Their chief dependence being contraband pikes made surreptitiously in
parts thrown into the river from local English owned factories by rebel
mechanical workers there (Carrick at least) and picked up by awaiting Fenian
members along the banks of the Suir
for distribution to other comrades.
What wonder then, that at least one of them who shortly afterwards (1869) faced
with a vast amount of potential fighting material would intelligently discern
its possibilities under favorable circumstances.
The Fenian uprising in 1867 was quickly suppressed due to many factors. Father’s group never contacted the enemy. Except for pikes, they had very few weapons. He always claimed that the rising was premature. They took to the field in early March and were out in the open unprotected in the heaviest snowstorm the locality experienced in many years. Poorly clad, unsheltered, lacking arms and other supplies, hungry and cold, they were relieved when the order came to disband. While in the field, he and others received the sacraments of Confession and Holy Communion from the monks at Mount St. Melleray Monastery. His French confessor there, aware of father’s rebel status, advised him to keep constantly in the state of grace and be ready to face God. A similar account of a like occasion was given to me by a brother of my mother (William O’Sullivan 1853 - 1939). This uncle was a rebel in 1867, but was a Clogheen County Tipperary native. Mount St. Melleray I believe, is not far from the birthplace of either of my parents.
Mount St. Melleray Monastery
Father had an interesting story concerning the early history of Mount St.
Melleray and it ran thus: Founded
by the French monks by permission of the owner, they through thoroughly hard
work, converted a valueless mountain area into fertile fields and gardens.
A later landlord is said to have insisted on reclaiming the land.
A lawyer said to have been Daniele O’Connor interceded and got either a
deed or a stay in proceeding until “Tomorrow”.
Fact or fiction I know not.
Neither did my father.
Father often made mention of local fools.
I recall his claiming to have seen two of these “unfortunates” in close
conversation, and seeming to understand each other’s gibberish.
Other apparent fools he designated rouges in masquerade who assumed their
role to win sympathy and avoid work.
One of these stories concerned three of the latter type.
One of these had attached himself to the Marquis of Waterford’s estate
and was enjoying all the immunity of his privileged status.
Along came a town fool who also tried to entrench himself on the
property. The other fool beat him
off. The beaten fool returned to
town and later returned with a third fool who soundly thrashed the estate fool.
Seeing the fight the Marquis ordered them separated and asked the strange
fool “What are you beating my fool for?”
“Because he bate my fool!”
Carrick seems even in those remote days, to have many characters the counterpart
of whom is yet to be found in big and small settlements, perhaps everywhere.
Easily recognizable to me is Mile
A Minute a dignifies snail paced gentleman who when enraged when being
called by his nickname, often outran many a fresh Carrick boy and slapped him
into more respectful behavior.
Familiar too is the old time Sanctified
Joney, an incessant pesterer of the clergy and also a malicious local
newsmonger, who piously renounced the sin of the scandals she peddled.
Charitable as the Irish are towards the
dead, when Joney died the neighbors
softened their opinion that though she surely went to hell, she was there
without sin.
Among his other recollections, father claimed to have conversed with a very old
lady who told him that she saw her father and her thirteen brothers drop their
work in the fields and rush off to the battle of Vinegar Hill in 1798.
I believe the claimed that they all perished in that battle, but as I am
recalling the item from statements made fifty years back, I am not sure.
In interesting too is a story father told of an 1866 encounter with a man
purportedly to be 104 years old, who bet him a ha’pence that he could beat
father in a dash across the rathad (road).
The old man won the bet too, and father gave him a shilling.
Learning that father intended going to America, the old man informed him
that he too once started for New York.
He sailed in “Boney’s time” (during the Napoleonic Wars)
but the ship was captured by the French, and he did not get back to Ireland
until after the war.
Father remembered The Crimean War quite well, and knew personally various of the
men who fought in its battles. I
often heard him refer to The Malakoff, The Redan, Sevastopol,
and Balaclava in connection with some of the veterans he knew.
Crimea seems to have taken a rather heavy toll in his locality, as I
remember him relating details about “The Kiln Boys” of the region.
These were a tough bunch of fellows, who in the early 1850’s used to
gather on cold evenings around a local Lime Kiln to drink fight and carouse.
They stole and roasted local lambs and poultry for their feasts, and were
a neighborhood problem and worry until the Crimean trouble broke out in 1854
when most of them enlisted. None of
these to my father’s knowledge ever returned to Carrick.
I
have frequently alluded to Carrick as my father’s native village.
As there seem to be quite a few Carricks in Ireland, I should qualify by
stating the father was born somewhere in County Waterford, perhaps Portlaw or
Carrick, Carrick Beg, or Carrick on Suir, which lacking an atlas I cannot
pinpoint. I remember father
mentioning that it was just a nice Sunday walk into the city of Waterford City,
a walk which he frequently made. In
regard to Waterford City, I remember him saying something about Strongbow’s
Tower being there. It is my
understanding that the Norman invasion of southern Ireland was under the
direction of Strongbow. Under him I
believe fought the Flemish crossbow men.
One of these was my ancestor.
Intending to file a few copies of this family history in the Waterford
area, I add for identification purposes, that until about 1912 my Uncle John
Fleming lived part of the time in County Waterford at Portlaw, and sometimes in
Droylsden near Manchester England. Up
until his decease, he had cousins living in and around Carrick.
These were named Conoway. Of
a later generation, I recall something about a certain Dean Henneberry. Two
other cousins predeceased my uncle.
These were a John and Ellen Fleming.
Similar identifying data elsewhere in this book will I hope support many
claims and statements therein.
During the early years in America, father knew and conversed freely with the
veterans of the War of 1812 and the Mexican War.
Among his fellow workers were many Civil War Veterans.
He thus had a good knowledge of many famous battles.
Many Irish participated in the Civil War.
Some as citizens, others as volunteers, and still others as substitutes
for drafted men. A few local men
served in The Confederacy due to their being in the South at the outbreak of the
war.. A story of father’s concerns a
greenhorn Irishman who for $500 agreed to substitute in the war for a local
businessman.. For the fee of it, his
army commander convinced him that a bounty was also paid for every rebel soldier
killed.. Shortly after reaching the
war front, they were called out hurriedly to reinforce another outfit..
“How many rebels are out there?” inquired the Irishman..
“Oh golly Pat, there’s a million of them.””
a jokester said.. “Praise be
to God!! Me fortune is made.””
Averred the greenhorn..
Strongbow’s Tower Waterford, Co. Waterford Ireland
During the early years in America, father knew and conversed freely with the
veterans of the War of 1812 and the Mexican War.
Among his fellow workers were many Civil War Veterans.
He thus had a good knowledge of many famous battles.
Many Irish participated in the Civil War.
Some as citizens, others as volunteers, and still others as substitutes
for drafted men. A few local men
served in The Confederacy due to their being in the South at the outbreak of the
war. A story of father’s concerns a
greenhorn Irishman who for $500 agreed to substitute in the war for a local
businessman. For the fee of it, his
army commander convinced him that a bounty was also paid for every rebel soldier
killed. Shortly after reaching the
war front, they were called out hurriedly to reinforce another outfit.
“How many rebels are out there?” inquired the Irishman.
“Oh golly Pat, there’s a million of them.”
a jokester said. “Praise be
to God! Me fortune is made.”
averred the greenhorn.
Among our family stories are the following.
My grandmother’s brother The Reverend Edmond Phelan, a Catholic priest
had a guest one day who in the course of conversation revealed himself as an out
and out atheist. On discerning
this, Father Phelan called to his housekeeper saying “Lock up the silver Katie,
and leave nothing of value around.
This man don’t believe in God.”
Another story relates to an ancestor named Phadrig, a man in good circumstance
and something of a duelist. One day
while dinning in London, he was surprised to uncover a platter of potatoes,
boiled with their jackets on.
Titters from an adjoining table emphasized the inference.
Phadrig said nothing but ate the potatoes in apparent relish.
Recognizing those who tittered as regular hotel guests, he bribed (as
they seemed to have) the waiter to put a large platter on their table.
When it was uncovered it revealed one of Phadrig’s cards for each man at
the table. To each card was added:
At dawn, at your pleasure.
The wags left the hotel rapidly.
Another facet of father’s character is revealed in the following story.
He had been idle all winter of 1881-1882.
Shortly after work was resumed the following spring, he was seized with
malarial fever and ran deeper into debt.
Believing father was going to die, the grocer cut off our provisions.
Ten years afterward father walked into the grocery and threw the money he
owed on the counter saying “I didn’t die, or any of my family either but no
thanks to you Hank.” The grocer
admitted to me twenty years later that he had been sure father was going to die
and he was really surprised and ashamed when the bill was finally paid.
Great grandfather is said to have been a builder who retiring, invested in farm
lands. Intelligent whole souled and
honest minded, he was victimized and robbed by those in whom he reposed
confidence. One rascally farm
overseer is said to have sold off choice beef cattle and reporting them as dying
of disease. On hearing of the loss,
the old man would tell the overseer not to worry adding “Let us thank God it is
not our overseer or any of our families”.
Great grandmother however was not so gullible and her subsequent
investigations resulted in the overseer’s dismissal.
Two railroading chums of father’s during his first years in America were named
Norris and Noonan. Once applying
for work in Illinois the foreman, a Yankee named Nickerson, told them that none
of them looked to be much of a man, and that he would only have to beat them up
three or four times a day to get enough work out of them.
“Sir” replied Norris, “I am the worst man of the three.
Now if I can lick you, would that prove anything sir?”
Get the hell in there and carry them rails, and no back talk or I’ll
knock the daylights out of all three of you” roared the foreman.
Other of Father’s stories relate to a wise fool or “cuteen” who asked my
father to hold a roll of bills for him overnight and next day he claimed he was
ten dollars short. A brickyard
story tells of an Irishman who on entering a company shack or boardinghouse
warned all “Far Downs” or Northern Irish to leave or prepare their souls for
eternity. Also there is a story
that relates of a fellow who prayed loud and long at his bunk side every night,
with a pile of bricks beside him.
These he would hurl in any direction from whence came a protest, comment, slur,
or titter.
Concerning an old country experience, father told of a visit to an Irish fair
while the spirit of old coat dragging and shillala waving faction challenges
still smoldered. The Waterford boys
were approached by a friendly chap who inquired where they were from and who was
their best man. When told, he said
he was from one of a group from Tipperary “all good men and out for sport.
Come on over and join us”.
They went, and after an informal introduction, the Tipp called one of his gang
saying “This is a fine man, but he is getting tired of beating up Kilkenny lads
and would like to try his luck on a Waterford lad.
Are any of ye worth your salt?”
This was too much and a general fight started which left all the
participants bearing scars of the battle.
This experience was the basis of father’s claim that some men never learn
by experiences; however he never made that claim within hearing of my
intelligent Tipperary mother.
A racing fan himself, father admired the spirited Irish and English horses.
If I remember correctly, he was a friend of a great Irish jockey (John
Ryan ?) said to have been a derby rider, perhaps a winner.
Father’s comment on the frequent teaming up of stallions for work
purposes in America was “Never the like of it ever be tried in
aither Ireland or England”.
Pastured bulls also puzzled him as Irish bulls were terrible he said.
Father’s game cocks and dogs were well bred gamey animals.
When cross bred at all the combination proved to be an improvement.
Before I ever saw an Airedale or Bullterrier, he was crossing terriers
and bulldogs to obtain quick, strong, gamey dogs and never got excited when the
expected occurred between them. I
recall my eldest brother, who was then working away from home, bringing back a
splendid fox terrier. Father was
reading when Jim entered with the fox terrier.
My boyhood dog throttled the interloper at once.
Mother fled with an infant child and I felt none too brave myself.
Father removed his spectacles and asked my brother to separate the dogs.
This done, father asked quietly “Where did you get him Jimmy?”
Given the details, his comment was “He is a game little divil, but too
light for owld Duke , though he is younger.
He will learn though. But we
are going to have a divil of a time getting them used to each other”.
As a character, my father had many of the better traits of Bobby Burns and
somewhat paralleled Wilkes Micawber as he seemed always denouncing smart
practice and unethical procedures.
I remember him quoting from Pope Leo XIII’s encyclical on labor in one of
his arguments adding “Compare that sir to the conceit of well fed and over
privileged individuals who believe that some are born to rule and others to be
ruled, and consider themselves one of the Lord’s chosen”.
Temperate and hardworking, he was a popular neighbor among mixed
nationalities, and seemed something of an advisor or confessor to many workman.
Once, due to a work incident, an illiterate backwoods Yankee called to discuss
it with my father. An old man was
seen kneeling and praying alongside of his work.
The backwoodsman called father’s attention to it.
Father came, looked, and then tiptoed away beckoning the Yankee to do the
same. “Wasn’t that nice Jimmie?
What was he doing?” asked
the backwoodsman. Told that the old
man was praying to God, the big fellow wistfully remarked that he wished that he
knew something about God as he had lots of worries that nobody else cared a damn
about and he never learned to pray.
Father sent him to the Episcopal Minister mentioned elsewhere in the book.
Father
had many friends among the German folk, and the later coming Slavs, Polish and
Italians. Only a few Jews lived in
the neighborhood. These were mostly
businessmen. Despised by many,
traded with by nearly everyone, they were hated by their competitors of other
nationalities. Father claimed that
Jews simply had to be shrewd to avoid extermination.
He often said “The Galilean was a Jew.
He loved, forgave and prayed even for those who crucified him, and who
are we to gainsay him”. As a dog,
pigeon, and game fancier, father was admired by the old timers and beginners
alike in each of these sports. He
could have his pick of their best stock gratis.
One pigeon breeder, a winner of hundreds of exhibit prizes, once remarked
to me that father being the last of the old time fanciers “could have anything
I’ve got, anytime, for the taking”.
Religiously he attended Sunday Mass regularly, went to confession every
Christmas and Easter, his devotions otherwise consisted of religious reading,
chiefly his prayer book and his all beloved Imitation of Christ.
As a father he was Kindly, tolerant,
lenient, and quick to forgive. He
disliked seeing mother punish us.
He loved to fondle and amuse small children.
I remember one night he showed me how to thumb twiddle, and promised to
later show me another way of doing it.
Eager to learn, I pestered him until he did it in reverse.
He had a lot of child amusing tricks, songs, and stories, and among the
few jingles I dimly recall were the “Four and Twenty Blackbirds” and the trick
accompanied “Go to bed, go to bed
Tom”. Believing over education to
be at the root of much discontent, he approved of it only to the extent of an
individual’s capacity to absorb and utilize it.
Once when brother Tom weeping bitterly, protested against being educated,
father said to mother “That child has the sense of
Wiseman. Maybe we are
raising a “janious”. Personally I
feel sure Tom would have made his mark had he not been claimed as a war casualty
in 1918.
By heredity, father claimed, Flemish, Norman, Danish, Irish, and the Geraldine’s
Italian blood. My mother, a
Tipperary O’Sullivan, claimed that a great grandmother of hers bore the English
name of Spottswood. The third
American born generation have variously infusions of Dutch, German, and American
blood. Of these, as of 1949, there
is only one male. There seems to be a
celibate streak in our family, as father was the only one in his generation who
married. Of his children only two
sons married. In his grandchildren
however, the tendency seems to marry young.
Virtually the last of his line, father chose mother to perpetuate his
family and buttress attributes they already possessed; an infusion that matched
his own blood, producing excellent offspring.
Often when facing situations which would have trapped my hot-headed father, my
mother’s influence has saved me by recalling some of her repeated warnings: “Put
yourself in no one ones power” or “When you have you hand in a dogs mouth, draw
it out as aisy as you can”. For me,
their like, similar, and unlike characteristics were fortuitous.
They shared and endured a poverty of material things and may in the eyes
of the world be adjudged failures, yet in the worthwhile and praiseworthy things
of the soul and character, they were rich and successful.
Colossal memorials have been built commemorating fools, tyrants,
butchers, murderers and mediocrities, while billions of just and honorable world
builders sleep forgotten. Reasoning
these, I share views variously and beautifully expressed by Bobbie Burns, Thomas
Grey, Edwin Markham and others.
Born in an historic period, father witnessed the transition of things from the
old order to the new. His father
never saw a railroad, though father aided in the building of many.
He saw the development and expansion of steam power, photography, the
telegraph, telephone, electric power, phonographs, radio, airplane, automobiles,
harvesting machines, gas driven engines, the X-ray, improved production methods,
and a thousand other things which made for world betterment.
Claiming that he had been born a hundred years too soon, and he
prophesized that the time would come when most of the world’s work would be done
by machinery, and all mankind would have ample food, clothing, comfort, and
leisure.
Although a staunch laborite, he did not view labor saving devices with alarm,
claiming that although they displaced labor, they saved lives and would force
government responsibility for the unemployed, and measures regulating fair labor
distribution. He pointed that
hammer and jumper hand mining had sent many miners to an early grave, and gave
easier jobs to those who replaced them.
He claimed that the harvesting machines earlier destroyed by angry
English peasants, were the forerunners of those that made possible the
development of our western wheat empire.
Once seeing an automobile with glaring headlights pass our house one
night he commented “Byes oh byes.
If that blasted thing had appeared anywhere in Ireland fifty years ago, there’d
be a scared Irish family at the top of every tree on the island”.
Well versed in history, his reminiscences, and those with whom he loved to
converse , were replete with incidents associated with important events of long
ago. His own father as a young man,
fought for Belgian independence in 1829 with Thomas Frances Magher, and later
participated in the Irish rising of 1848.
It is also claimed that a younger brother of my grandfather served in
Meagher’s Irish Brigade during the American Civil War.
Father had conversed with the men who had served throughout the Crimean
War. He likewise talked with
veterans who fought in India during the Sepoy Mutiny in 1857.
Several of these claimed to have seen Old Nana Sahib, The Butcher of
Cawnpore.
During the public readings of the Civil War News, father met two interesting
local characters. One of these
known as Mickey Mixup, was as his nickname implied, prone to getting things
wrong. In relaying the news, Mickey
would proclaim that the United States was knocking the hell out of the
Northerners, and Lee’s men were chasing the rebels from pillar to post.
Another regular attendant of these readings was an elderly poorly clad
yet dignified looking old farmhand from a nearby gentleman’s estate.
Having heard this man being referred to
as a Poor Scholar father made it a
point to get acquainted with him.
He found that the man, though wholly illiterate, could repeat accurately every
item he heard read from the newspaper.
His English was accurate and grammatical in imitation of the schoolmaster
who made public the news dispatches, supplemented by his observably close
attention of the Sunday sermons of the parish priest.
Irish however was the man’s mother tongue, and according to father in it
he was eloquent. This was
manifested by his acting as an interpreter for many interested older folks whose
knowledge of English was limited.
The Poor Scholar seemed effortlessly able to translate rapidly from English into
Gaelic and hold the interest and attention of the Irish speaking elements to the
outspoken admiration of the gentlemanly English born local pedagogue.
The Poor Scholars of Ireland in the Black
Centuries seem the spiritual descendants of the ancient bards.
The scholars went from house to house
and taught Irish children for centuries receiving little more than their bed and
board in worldly recompense, yet in the intangibles their gains were priceless.
They helped keep alive the Gaelic tongue, learned the rudiments of
education and taught them to others who passed them on to others who preserved
the national spirit, and inch by inch after many centuries, regained for Ireland
a rightful place among the nations of the world.
Interesting too that father visited the Lakes of Killarney, The Vale of Avoca,
the cities of Dublin, Cork, Limerick, and other famed Irish localities.
He was told that a walking stick laid on
the ground at evening in The Vail of Avoca, would be covered with grass in the
morning. He never claimed to have
kissed the Blarney Stone. His
attitude was that no Irish born person needed to acquire fluency.
He once told me of seeing an Irish regiment who wore three sleeves on their coat
in in commemoration of having turned the tide of a long ago continental battle
by rushing to the battlefield half-dressed and making a magnificent charge.
A former blacksmith and fellow townsman
of O’Donovan Rosa, informed me that the regiment mentioned were known as the
Faugh A Ballagh which I think means either Clear the Road or Keep Out Of Our Way
(More accurately, “Clear The
Way”-
Tipp) My father also told of another
battle in which Irish soldiers turned the tide.
An Austrian Prince Eugene is said to have been in command of enemy
forces. His forces seemed to have
captured the commanding officers of the opposing army.
Prince Eugene is said to have had this officer brought to headquarters
for a talk during which Prince Eugen pointed out the futility of further
resistance against him as the battle was already won except for a last ditch
effort by a wild Irish regiment who were merely committing suicide.
He pleaded for the immediate recall of these brave foolish men for whom
there was no hope. The captured
officer suspecting the Prince, refused to issue the order.
Prince Eugene angrily turned away and shouted “To Horse!
To Horse!” and in a half hours’
time his army was in full retreat.
A similar story told by my father, related to Napoleon’s Old Guard.
These brave Frenchman shown the futility of resistance are said to have
answered a request to surrender in the immortal words “The Old Guard Dies!”
Thomas Moore - Irish Melodies, Volume 6
Oh, where's the slave so lowly, Condemn'd to chains unholy, Who, could he burst His bonds at first, Would pine beneath them slowly? What soul, whose wrongs degrade it, Would wait till time decay'd it, When thus its wing At once may spring To the throne of Him who made it? Chorus: Farewell, Erin, - farewell, all, Who live to weep our fall! |
2. Less dear the laurel growing, Alive, untouch'd and blowing, Than that whose braid Is pluckd to shade The brows with victory glowing. We tread the land that bore us, Her green flag glitters o'er us, The friends we've tried Are by our side, And the foe we hate before us. Chorus: Farewell, Erin, - farewell, all, Who live to weep our fall! |
The other story related to O’Connell pausing and searching in his pocket
in front of a then well-known beggar woman who opened up on O’Connell thus:
“ Oh sir, may the blessings of God follow you morning noon and night, all
the days of your life. O’Connell
put a toothpick in his mouth and slowly walked away.
The disappointed beggar lady shouted after him “And may it never overtake
you”. Highly pleased, O’Connell
returned and gave her a Sovereign saying “Now my good woman, I want you to curse
me please”. The beggar looked at
the Sovereign and then at O’Connell and replied “Oh kind sir I can’t curse you,
but the curse of God on you!” Vague
in my memory is another story associated with O’Connell, who whether because of
a wager or some other purpose, caused a single Lucifer match or flame to
indirectly light every fire in Erin.
This was accomplished perhaps by the original flame being passed by hand
from house to house or by less direct means spurred on by a prevalent belief
that the end of the world was imminent and that all who kept a fire kindled from
the flame of a widely circulated candle, would be spared.
Clearer in my memory is a description of a chronic “God help me” or pessimist
who seemed always crestfallen and depressed.
Something of a poet, this fellow incessantly murmured his woes to himself
bystanders regardless. Oh, oh, oh,
the shadow is on me. Woe, woe, woe.
Oh, oh, oh, I was born for misfortune.
Woe, woe, woe”. Brief was
the story of a peasant woman who had one hen.
When the hen laid an egg, the woman would rush off to town and sell it
for a penny. When reminded that she
had to pay a ha’pence each way at the toll gate she replied “Oh anything so as
to be in the trading line”. Another
mentions a slowpoke townsman, Stoop
shouldered and slow of gait, he was known as “Here’s me head and me behind is
coming”.
Father claimed that a bat had no classification other than its name in the
animal kingdom, as it is neither bird nor beast.
How this came to be is related in one of his stories:
Once upon a time the birds and the beasts had a terrible war between
them. During it, the bat perched
along the sidelines cheering the respective gains on both sides.
“Hurrah, hurrah for our side,
I’m a bird” he would shout when the birds had the advantage.
Then “Hurrah, hurrah, for our side.
I’m a beast” he would scream when the beasts seemed to have the upper
hand. A wise old elephant with a
good memory called for a truce.
Discussion followed during which many on both sides recalled that the bat had
ardently promoted the war among both classifications.
Peace followed, and both sides repudiated all relationship with the bat
species who according to their verdict was “neither bird nor beast”.
Apparently mountebanks were as clever and suckers were as gullible in olden
times as they are today.
Illustrative of this is father’s account of a faker who cleaned up at a Kilkenny
fair exhibiting a horse with his head where his tail should be and vice versa.
Some of those duped felt too ashamed to expose the fraud, and others
humorously recommended the spectacle to their friends, who in turn praised it to
others. Thus did an old horse
harnessed to a wagon backwards become a profitable attraction.
Tom Pepper is said to have been a notorious liar, trouble maker, and general
nuisance. Tom was chased out of
hell for being a common disturber.
According to the story, the devil ordered Tom brought to headquarters.
“Pepper” said the devil, “everybody knows what kind of a place we keep
here and the types we cater to. I
admit we ain’t much, yet in a way we have standards beyond which I refuse to
sink. You have been here only a
month, yet in that time you have made more trouble than my toughest guests.
Get out!” “But” replied Tom,
“What will I do? They won’t have me
in Purgatory or Heaven. So where
can I go?” I don’t care where you
go or what happens to you as long as you keep the hell away from Hell” said the
devil adding, “But hold on a minute.
Blast it, you’re no good to me yet you can be of service to me.
There is too much peace in the world today, and it’s on the increase.
That’s bad for my business. I
need sinners so I’ll make ye me agent and send you back to earth to drum up
trade for me. I know better than to
trust you but I also know that you are of no good whatsoever.
So whatever you do on earth is bound to help me.
So back you go tonight , and under no circumstances must you ever come
here again. Get out!”
The Irish in my home town comprised of individuals from various parts of
Ireland. We had many Corkonians, a
few Far Downs, several Waterford families, an occasional Tipp, and a scattering
from Mayo, Donegal, Kilkenny, and other counties.
The brogue of each section differed, otherwise they seemed typical Gaels.
Save for a pardonable clannishness towards their home towns, they were
ordinarily friendly to all. Yet
when quarrels broke out, the first insult they offered would be a reflection on
the other fellows home county. Many
Country Borns of the first American
born generation seemed similarly prejudiced.
Some of the latter were much older than my father, a few of their
forbearers having come to America as early as 1800, and after 1824 others came
to our locality in the hundreds.
For
well over a century American born Irish have been intermarrying with American,
German, Italian, Polish, and other nationalities.
Due to the heavy waves of immigration from Germany contemporary with
similar waves from Ireland a century ago, the preponderance of the earlier
intermarriages were amongst the Irish and Germans.
Intermarriage and close association influenced alike the successive
rising generations to a point that prompted my father to say of them “Dutch,
Irish, or Yankee, they are all alike”.
This in contrast to all the characteristics of the pure bred elements
which differed greatly as is illustrated by another of father’s assertions.
“A drunken German likes to laugh and sing, Yankees want to fall asleep,
and Irishmen want to pick a fight”.
In this connection he claimed that neither the Irish nor the Indians knew how to
handle liquor.
In common with many other nationalities, some of the Irish drank not wisely but
well. A few I recall , kept bone
dry for long periods and then went off on a bender which lasted as long as their
money held out. A portent of a
forthcoming spree on the part of one man was his donning of a heavy overcoat
regardless of the season. In this
he slept wherever he fell. Such a
spree often brought on the “fancies”, and the ailing addict would be with the
fairies for some time. On one such
occasion, the frightened wife of a man thus afflicted called a neighbor who was
an authority on such matters. This
veteran of many such bouts with John Barleycorn consoled and instructed the
wife, and then left for the village where he spread the rumor of the victim’s
death. As this happened on a Sunday
morning, dozens of Irish villagers called at the house of the purportedly
deceased man. Among these were some
very old women. Adept keeners, they
marched into the house wailing and lamenting loudly.
The invalid jumped out of bed and demanded to know what the hell was
going on. The stream of mourners
fled panic stricken, some of the older ones outstripping all others into the
village. When later accused of
rumor mongering, the responsible individual claimed that he meant that the other
fellow was “dead drunk”.
The custom of waking the deceased neighbors prevailed among the Irish for many
years. Originally marked by the
unseemly faults of earlier times, these gradually modified until nowadays they
give little cause for criticism. I
recall many of the old fashioned wakes and have observed some of the old time
keeners lamenting the deceased in Gaelic.
I adjudged these to be both picturesque and impressive.
I likewise admired the charity that forbade peaking ill of the dead even
when little else could be said concerning the departed soul.
I remember the wake of one such individual who was generally and
justifiably disliked. Little beyond
“God have mercy on him” and a few formal prayers were sad in his memory until an
old timer entered and standing beside the bier said solemnly Oh God rest the
poor unfortunate fellow. You
wouldn’t find a man within a day’s walk that had a finer set of teeth in his
mouth than poor Ned had”. Solely on this
tribute rests the fame of a bad citizen.
In it too, is a tribute to the charity and warmth of heart of the
illiterate old Irishman who said all the good that he could say in truth
concerning a worthless individual.
The tribute payer himself was an interesting type.
Easy going and carefree, he claimed that just before coming to America in
1840, he gave a beggar woman tuppence to do all his future worrying for him.
This man was the best local singer of his time and in 1850, journeyed to
New York City to hear the famous Jenny Lind sing.
He was one of the several locals who had received the temperance pledge
from Father Theobald Matthew personally.
Many Irishmen of his generation and older came to our house to converse with
father because “Jimmie” knew and understood what they were talking about.
All the stories they told were quaint and interesting.
Much older than my father, their headstones here indicate that many of
them belong to the 1770 to 1820 born generations.
In contrast to father’s smooth shaven face and fair education, they all
wore beards and but very few could read and write.
They all believed in banshees, leprechauns, clurichauns, pookas, fairies,
fetches and all the superstitions of the old land.
I was very, very young when they were very old, and I cannot reconstruct
the tales they told that terrified me as a child.
Such old stories are included in this
book. I recall chiefly from my
father’s telling and retelling them in my adolescence and younger manhood, but
few more remain to complete the list.
One of these was told in complimentary explanation of a certain individual’s
notorious ability to outdrink every other bum in town and keep his feet.
According to father, two poachers were enabled to bag a fine mess of
trout daily, from a small brook by throwing them small pieces of bread
previously soaked in poteen.
Intoxicated, the trout would flip around weakly and were easily caught in the
shallow water. One day they saw a
big fellow join the trout scrambling for the bread.
Concentrating upon him, the poachers used up all the poteen they had and
procured more. This too, the big
fish consumed without effect and home went the poachers emptyhanded.
Hearing them discuss the incident that evening in a tavern, an old man
laughed saying “Hah! Hah! Hah! Ye
fellows will never catch that divil that way.
He is a mullet and have no brains.
He is too empty headed to get drunk”.
Another
story tells of a stingy father who to encourage a growing son, offered to divide
a small flock of sheep with him at marketing time in lieu of wages.
Among the flock was an animal that the boy had raised from a lamb, and
loved devotedly. When ready to
market the sheep, the father put the best stock in one pen, and placed the pet
lamb among the scrubs. Calling his
son, the father offered him the choice of pens.
Seeing his pet lamb among the scrubs, the son went to the pet animal,
petted him and tearfully said “Tommy, I have loved you since you were a baby,
and I always will remember you. But
you are in very bad company and I am through with you!”
Walking over to the other pen he said “I’ll take these pa”.
This I believe is an old American story frequently used politically to
offset the strengths of politically popular candidates.
Two other stories tell of miserly men.
One of these relates to a man who used to put a lantern in his parlor
stove when expecting guests. The
reflection of the lantern light against the isinglass giving the impression of a
good fire. Meaner yet was a man who
gave his children pennies to go to bed supper-less, and then stole the coins
back when they were asleep.
The last story I have in my memoranda shows that father’s respect for
sportsmanship was shared by the best fighting dog he ever owned.
This was my boyhood dog Duke who fought willingly and eagerly until he
was eighteen years old. Blind,
toothless, old, and feeble even then he tried to fight.
He was only whipped in one battle during his prime.
This beating was administrated by Jennie, our goat.
Ordinarily Duke had tolerated her with reservations, but seeing her butt
my father to the ground, Duke sailed to his rescue.
Jennie knocked Duke cold.
“Be Jabbers, she licked the both of us” said my father as he revived Duke, who
after coming to staggered to within a few feet from the end of Jennie’s tether
and wagging his tail yelped friendly fashion.
“There’s a thoroughbred for you” said my father.
“He knows he’s met his match”.
I have mentioned Duke in various parts of this book.
A few items of interest remain concerning him.
Two thirds Irish Terrier and one third Bulldog, he was boss in local
dogdom. Hi killed stray cats,
hunted snakes, woodchucks, possums, rabbits, raccoons, rats, mice, and other
animals. He liked to join the
hounds in a foxhunt but due to the habit of stopping to bark, he was generally
left in the rear. He was an
enthusiastic swimmer and was a familiar figure among the boys at the local
swimming hole. He was no wagon
chaser as were many dogs of that period everywhere.
He rarely attacked anyone unless provoked.
He seemed to know what a gun was, and would attack even one of our own
family if we pointed one at him. He
was never known to molest a kitten or one of the poultry and puppies terrified
him. He was frequently stolen for use in
village dog fights, and whenever Duke acted friendly towards some of the town
sportsmen, father would accuse them of borrowing Duke unbeknownst.
Father had quaint ways of expressing things, as for instance using
fornist and beyant.
Weather-wise, he classified March as
Manyweathers and always claimed that
one extreme was followed by another.
On February 2nd he would say “Half the corn and half the hay
and the stock will live till the 1st of May”.
At Epiphany he would say something that sounded to me like Kish Lawn
Kilig* which I believed referred to a belief that the day’s length had increased
by a cock’s step. He called the
Fall of the year Autumn, saying he never knew the word to be used in that sense
in Ireland.
*Note The above expression would
more accurately translate as “Bhí méadú na laethanta fad ar chéim le coileach
ar”. And at this point it is
difficult to relate the original expression.
My mother also used a smattering of Gaelic phrases all of which I am only
able to repeat phonetically. Tipp
As I proceed, other stories of the old land come to mind.
One of these tells of a murdered British trooper who haunted the locality
where he met his end. Another is a
tale of a heavy drinking fellow, who taking a shortcut through a graveyard one
night, fell into a newly made grave.
Hearing his shouts, his cronies investigated and observing his
predicament, decided to frighten him.
One of them wrapped himself in a sheet and went over to the grave and
asked angrily “What are you doing in my grave at this time of night?”
Replying, the drunk flung back “What are you doing outside your grave at
this time of night?”
As most of our family were great readers, in our home we had quite a large and
varied library. The accumulation of
over a century, the basis of this library consists chiefly of books pertaining
to Catholicism, Irish history and political affairs.
Among them are histories by Darcy McGee, John Mitchel, Abby MacEaghon,
Daniel O’Connell, and others.
Lives, biographies, memoirs, and autobiographies of many eminent Irishman.
Also the works of Irish poets, scholars, and journalists.
Swift’s works, British classics, The Letters of Junins (1782 edition) and
other items ranging from 80 to 200 years old.
These are not for sale at any price as it is my desire to donate them to
whatever archive is most likely to respect and preserve them as a memorial to
two representative Irish immigrants.
Two great individuals whose annals beyond the data in this book, the
world will never know.
My father bore his life disappointments without embitterment.
Conceding himself to be a failure in a material way, he found consolation
in his moral and spiritual gains.
He often expressed especial pride in raising a large family to maturity, set a
good example and fulfilled his obligations otherwise to God, society, his native
country, and the land of his adoption.
He said little concerning the adverse circumstances, that in the estimate
of his fifth son, accounted largely for his failure in terms of dollars and
cents. In outline these include:
Losing his father when he was very young.
Being a child laborer at the age of eight.
A very meager education obtained from his very intelligent mother, augmented by
occasional visits by a Poor Scholar
or itinerant Irish teacher.
And slack work attendance at the local unit of the national school.
These supplemented by his lifelong omnivorous reading were the chief educational
resources of a debator who often vanquished pedagogic and other professional
forum opponents.
Father and Uncle Edmund were rebels in the 1867 rising, and came to America via
France the same year. They planned
to start a small bookstore in the Boston area.
While working and saving with this objective in mind, the Irish plan to
seize Canada via the United States was under consideration.
Joining the movement, they participated in the raid on Canada, and
engaged in the only battle of that unsuccessful attempt which was frustrated by
the United States Army blocking the border and shutting off reinforcements to
the Irish invaders in Canada. I
think the raid occurred in 1870 and that General Meade of Gettysburg fame
directed the blockade which broke up the invasion.
Separated from his brother, father got a job on the railroad project at
Rosendale. By writing home, Uncle
Ed got father’s address and joined him here panning to return Massachusetts.
Father’s foreman refused to pay him until his month was up, and suggested
that Uncle Ed join the gang while waiting for father.
This agreed upon, Uncle Ed went to work the next morning, and was killed
in an accident a few hours afterward.
Father never wanted to talk about this but eyewitnesses to the tragedy
told me that father was almost insane with grief.
Uncle Ed was buried in the Catholic churchyard and father resumed his
railroading. However, wishing to
keep in touch with his brother’s grave, father wanted to locate here.
This he did after his marriage.
Susceptible to Malia, his health and ability to work decreased to a point
that reduced our family to extreme poverty.
Loaded down with debt he, in his own words, was “paying on dead horses
for twenty five years” at the end of which, he was a broken down old man.
A small legacy from the old country cleared him of debt, and enabled him to
purchase the house we rented. One
by one, we children became self-supporting and the load lightened.
But the wrecked prematurely old man persisted in working whenever it was
obtainable for men his age. “I’d
rather be dead that idle” he often stated, and work he did up to within a week
of his death of pneumonia contracted by his digging a grave during a December
sleet storm. Conscious almost to
the end, he had little to say. One
remark to me was “Oh God knows I’m not afraid to die”.
Another was an inquiry as how far off it was to Christmas. I told him it
was two weeks away. To this he
replied “I’d like to stay till then, but two weeks is too long, too long”.
He died the next day while talking rationally with a shocked American
neighbor who could not believe what he saw.
A thinking, rough and ready fellow, this man said to my mother “Well if
that’s all there is to death, I’m ready for it now”.
Little dreaming that his own death would be one of lingering agony far
worse than the last struggles of my poor mother, with whom I was during her last
travail.
Father pioneered in the building of various important railroads, and typified
the “Wild Irishman” who with the Dutch, and the freed slaves, aided in the
expansion and development of American enterprises.
He, among other “Wild Irishmen” strayed far afield in the
transcontinental railroad building days, contacting Indians, Mexicans, and
Chinese in the western divisions.
As was the case in the South, many of them settled down and reared families that
have lost contact with their traditional faith, yet still retain their Celtic
names and physiognomy. Yet whenever
a small group of these settled, however remote from the facilities of the
Church, their faith was kept alive until gradually through years of sacrifice, a
Catholic Church adorned their remote settlement.
“Wild Irishmen” “The Wild Geese” and “The Railroad Builders” they are
vicariously called. Properly
though, they with many missionaries merit the name “Church Builders”.
Father had a story about one of these “Wild Irishmen”.
It tells of a missionary priest being taken captive by the Indians.
Rushed into the Indian village, he was taken to the chieftains tent.
Imagine his surprise to hear the gaudily robed chief address him in a
rich Irish brogue saying “Av ye please faather, won’t ye reverence be seated”.
The explanation was that this “Mick” had deserted the railroad camp and
married the daughter of a chief who died later.
As the chief had no sons, the tribe willingly conceded the leadership to
the redheaded good natured Irishman.
Another of these “Wild Irish” transcontinental railroaders is said to
have eloped with the daughter of a stern old time minister who disowned the
couple until his wife borrowed the first grandchild and kept it for a week,
during which the gentleman weakened and sent for his daughter and son in law.
Among the earliest settlers in my home locality was a family of third generation
Americans of which all were baptized after maturity by one of the first
missionary priests that visited here sometime between 1825 and 1835.
A humorous story prevailed concerning the youngest of this group.
A big rawboned back-wood youth who not enjoying the dash of cold water he
received, shouted to the priest “Hey there, take it easy! Or do you want to
start something”. Still earlier
apparently, were the forbearers of an old man with whom father conversed in
1870. Over eighty himself, this man
described his grandfather as a fine old Irishman who came to the locality when
about twenty years old. “He often
carried a string of beads which he often went over”.
This grandfather worked among the farmers as a stone mason and slater.
Often assisted by negro slaves and half-breed Indians, he built stone
walls, houses, barns, and so forth, receiving in return his board and a few
shillings. He later married an
American girl. In telling this
story, the grandson claimed that there was still a Catholic streak in the
family, as his own granddaughter who although only knew a few Catholics, had a
very strong curiosity concerning them and their religion.
She frequently pestered him about the great great grandfather.
The young miss wore an idol on her neck just like you Catholics, wherever
she got it, and she says she is going to marry a Catholic fellow someday.
A later coming founder of local
family came to Rosendale in 1820.
This man was a cooper by trade, and also worked among the farmers here making
pork barrels, butter firkins, buckets, and so forth, from start to finish.
Felling the trees, splitting the logs, dressing the staves and heading,
and shaving the hoops. A few years
later, the discovery of cement here created a demand for barrels by the
thousands, and this man was the first cooper boss on the earliest cement works
here.
Father loved Yankee philosophy and humor.
I recall an American farmer telling him two tales anent feminine
stubbornness. One of these was of a
wealthy automobile owner meeting a horse drawn load of hay on a country road.
He told the farmer driver to follow him as he backed up to a wide spot.
His aristocratic wife objected and the man and wife started to argue.
The farmer injecting said “Never mind it mister, I’ll back out.
I got one just like her at home”.
The other story related of a man and wife while on a picnic, found that
their boat had been stolen. “Oh
John” said the wife, “someone cut the rope with a scissors”.
“Nah maw” sneered John “It’s too heavy.
He had to use a knife”.
“Knife” “Scissors” “Knife” “Scissors” was the gist of the argument that ensued.
Finally the enraged man grabbed his wife and ducked her in the water.
She came up sputtering “Scissors!” After every successive dunking until
he held her under a long time.
Finally, the woman feebly wiggled two fingers scissor fashion and died.
Father’s comment on this story was “Of course it’s only a story Ben, but
it’s bound to happen someday”.
During father’s tenure as a cemetery sexton, he met a met a neighborhood doctor
who was noted for his jocularity.
Not seeing the doctor for some time, father inquired concerning his health.
“Now Jimmie, I don’t like a man in your business to ask me such a
question. Don’t be in such a hurry
to get me” said the doctor. “Ah,
but your very much mistaken doctor”
replied my father. “If you died, my
business would go all to pieces.
Take care of yourself”. Similar was
his comment to an old fellow who during a funeral, used a measuring pole and
told father that the grave was too shallow.
“It’s deeper than you’re going to get I’ll see to that you meddling old
rascal” retorted father.
One day a very talkative neighbor woman was talking to my mother thus “I put in
my winter’s coal. I butchered my
pork. I got a cord of wood. I’m
going to buy two barrels of flour. I, I, I,” and so forth.
Father looked up from the book he was trying to read and said “I never
heard of Mike dying Maryann. How
long have you been a widow?”
Amusing are several railroading building incidents he related.
“How many of ye are in that car?”
asked the foreman. Told that
there were twenty, he shouted “Let half of ye drop off here, and the remaining
three thirds ride on up to the sand pit”.
Commenting on the quality of the coal he used, a fireman complained that
“three thirds of it was very poor and the other half was no good at all”.
An overcharged blast that
showered nearby workers with splintered stone, caused the alarmed foreman to
inquire if any of the wheelbarrows had been broken.
Again, when an engine collided with a handcar carrying six men, a
frightened foreman bemoaned “Oh the car is smashed!
The car is smashed! Oh what will I do?”
“I hope you go to hell you Roscommon rum pot” yelled one of the crew.
“What about us poor devils turning handsprings in the ditch for a dollar
a day?”
A veteran of several local wars fought between the railroad and right of way
landholders, father told of an instance when the railroad forces were routed by
artillery fire. The cannon used by
the opposition consisted of a series of holes drilled at various angles in the
face of a nearby rock ledge. Primed
with powder and charged with crushed stone, these guns deadly as a blunderbuss
won the day for the opposition.
Father claimed that one had to be tough in order to survive in early railroading
days, because if you raked and scraped the back kitchen of hell you would not
find a tougher crowd than one third of the elements one met in the early
railroad camps.
My parents’ practically inexhaustible fund of stories has delayed the conclusion
of this book as noteworthy items come to mind as I write.
Of the moment I recall one story of a botch mason being hired to erect a
chimney. Proceeding with the job
until it began to sag badly, he propped it up and hurriedly finished the job and
then reporting its completion demanded his wages.
Refused until it was inspected he threatened “If you don’t pay me right
away I will put such a curse on it that it will be on the ground before
morning”. And sure enough it was.
A few familiar sayings of my father
follow:
Youth is a blunder, manhood a struggle, old age a regret.
When a boy is young he thinks his father is perfect, at twenty he regards his
old man a fool, at fifty he marvels at his father’s wisdom.
A man is a fool till he’s forty.
Another previously overlooked story told by my father deals with a hometown
ne’er do well. A poaching addict,
this fellow while so engaged, encountered the owner of the estate taking a
morning walk deep in the woods.
“Good morning, good morning your lordship”
greeted the poacher, adding “you’re up very early sir”.
“Yes Terence, I am trying to get an appetite for my breakfast.
And what are you doing?” “Oh
me? I’m just walking around looking
for a breakfast for me appetite”.
Aside from the native brogue, both my parents sounded alphabetic letters similar
to the English pronunciation which differed from my own local custom.
Regarding this as droll, I once purposely pup smart fashion, pounced upon
a comment of my father on an item in a labor paper.
“I see there’s a liar (lawyer)
here in the paper be the name of Fleming” he said.
“Why that’s nothing” I
remarked. “We have a dozen of them
right here in this house”. “Yes”
replied father “but his fellow is very clever and makes a living at it”.
A picturesque and inspiring custom prevailed among local Catholics in the old
days. This was the practice of
families reciting the Rosary every evening during the Lentil season.
Very often neighbors dropped in.
If early we heard “God save all here” salutation, to which our parents
replied “And to you friend”. If
late, these friends would enter quietly kneel and join in the response as my
father led the recital. All through
the 1880’s even to the middle 1890’s the Hibernians were strong here and paraded
in full regalia on St Patrick’s Day and all other local turnouts.
I recall the organization engaging O’Donovan Rosa as a speaker,
buttressing a drive to raise money to support national Irish objectives.
My father was on the committee that contacted Mr. Rosa to our village.
It is practically impossible for anyone born here in this century (1900’s) to
understand and evaluate these quaint old timers who lacked nearly all of the
physical, social, economic, and cultural advantages that we now take for
granted. And I among the last of
them, feel that most of the nineteenth century born generations belong to an age
old order from which civilization emerged very slowly until the beginning of the
twentieth century. Just think for
instance, that any of these long dead old timers, who worked from sunrise to
sunset for a dollar a day and even less, got word of an eight hour day at a
dollar an hour, with unemployment pay, social security, and old age pensions
thrown in. What would they say?
I feel my father would characteristically comment “Just think, all that
and me only up here in heaven.
I am afraid that my father’s intelligence made his lot considerably harder to
bear than otherwise, in that it only increased his capacity for suffering and
realizing the tragic lot that doomed him and the bulk of his contemporaries t
lives of drudgery. Many trapped
like himself, weighted down with large families, poor circumstances bound and
harmless, meekly submitted “Man With The Hoe” fashion.
These my father pitied more than he pitied himself and often reminded
them of the spiritual recompenses forthcoming as promised in The Beatitudes.
Personally, he never flew in the face of God in even his wildest
rantings. He blamed most of the
causes on human unhappiness to manmade conditions, the balance to inevitable and
impartial laws. His mental
suffering seemed greater than the physical hardships of frozen feet, the
drudgery of exhausting labor from ten to fourteen hours a day, in scorching
heat, subzero weather, rain hale, and snow, as per season.
Poor, undernourished, half sick, half well, malaria in the summer,
chilblains and frozen fingers and feet in winter, a large family to feed, no
wonder Pop was a fanatic and found no peace save his prayers and religious
readings.
Frozen feet were common among the laborers of seventy years ago.
Father haled the later coming felt boots as a public benefaction.
Earlier, the average worker wore leather boots, usually hobnailed, these
were veritable refrigerators in winter despite woolen sox and rags with which
the workers bound their feet.
Rubber boots worn for ice harvesting were no better.
Mother claimed that father lost as much as he gained in the ice cutting
periods on the Hudson where he slept in cold shacks, worked in zero weather,
earned a few dollars, froze his hands and feet, and contracted a cough that
lasted till midsummer. The
hardships of brickyard work, while severe, were less terrible although the hours
were much longer. Father actually
boasted with a, to me, a pathetic sort of pride, that he had “shoveled pit” and
loaded barges from daybreak till nightfall the whole summer of 1872.
For this, his employers paid “Jimmie” the top wages of sixty dollars a
month and board. This predated the
Panic of 1873 during and after which, wages were lower for years.
In June of that panic year father and mother married.
Father, who paid frequent visits to the grave of his brother Edmund who
was killed while they were railroading here a few years earlier, decided to make
Rosendale his home. Then began his
career as a miner, in which three of his sons later tried and abandoned for
better occupations. As to the
hardships of mining, I can authoritatively attest.
Direct fatalities were only occasional however; the indirect toll of
human life and incapacity was shocking.
Few of the old time hammer men lived to the age of forty.
The introduction of pneumatic drills eased the physical effort and
displaced many to their good fortune, yet miners consumption insidiously and
gradually took its tool.
Disqualifications came early, men were deemed old at forty and but few past
fifty held their jobs without influence exercised on their behalf.
My exhausted father was incapacitated by a stroke in his middle forties,
and after convalescence worked at outdoor jobs, the last of which was
cemetery sexton.
From the age of ten to twenty, I followed in my father’s footsteps as a miner,
often in competition with men twice my strength.
To the good fortune of many around my own age, mining almost ceased
locally. Fortunately I say, because
had it been otherwise, Many of us would still find ourselves in the ancestral
rut that made many dear ones greater than ourselves to obscure, half-forgotten
graves. Far from being the sole
submerged trapped and circumstance bound intellectual in our locality, my father
had many friends, who although poverty stricken and of lowly station, evidenced
innate culture and intelligence to a surprising degree.
Regardless of this, I doubt if their basic education extended beyond more
than three or four years of schooling. Outstanding among these was a
neighborhood Corkonian woman of extraordinary brilliance.
Extremely poor and married to a quiet hard working laborer ten years
older than herself, and burdened with a large family, this woman read avidly
despite the loss of one eye. A
graceful dancer of Irish jigs and reels, she was an outstanding local singer and
gifted poet. Totally blind in her
later years, she still sang excellent patriotic songs of her own composition.
I have a few of these lyrics which I someday hope to publish.
Thus runs the saga of our immigrant forbearers through whose sacrifice
hardships, and devotion to their faith and families, we enjoy many of our
present blessings. The spiritual
gains are abundantly evident.
Cathedrals rear on sites that not too long ago were lost in wildernesses.
Materially we enjoy the benefits made possible by industry, sacrifice,
and integrity of the conglomerate colors, creeds, and nationalities that have
contributed towards making America the greatest country in the world.
In this book that began as a private
family history, I outlined an ancestry indicating from a race of individuals
illustrious in history. Most family
historians do this with a pardonable degree of pride.
Personally however, I am much prouder of the fact that I am the son of
two poverty stricken immigrants who lived labored, and died, God fearing and
honest in common with many similar parents of old, heretofore unsung.
Conclusion
My father died relatively poor in terms of dollars and cents, but in at least
one opinion, he left a wealth of interesting material concerning bygone
individuals and noteworthy incidents of times gone yonder.
As his son and biographer, in his memory I bequeath these to any and all
who deem them of interest.